1.
Why do you think
Eleanor leads a lonely life? What factors contribute to her unconventional
personality?
2.
What are some
things that Eleanor has to learn that most of us take for granted? Why does she
want to change her appearance?
3.
What
is the difference between loneliness and being alone? Which of these applies to
Eleanor and why?
4.
When Eleanor talks to her mother once a week
despite the past and present emotional abuse her mother inflicts on her do you
wonder why she continues to do so?
5.
Eleanor has no social reference from which to
interact with others. Yet, she suddenly decides she can have a meaningful
personal encounter with a rockstar. How does her chosen “project” change the
direction of her life?
6.
“That’s
the thing: it’s best just to take care of yourself.” Is there truth in
this?
7.
Eleanor often
speaks her mind. Does her forthrightness make you uncomfortable or make you
cheer for her?
8.
Little gestures
of kindness mean a lot to Eleanor. Why? Do you think most people overlook the
importance of thoughtfulness?
9.
When Raymond shows an interest in Eleanor do you
find yourself rooting for him? Why?
10.
How does Eleanor
and Raymond’s relationship evolve? Where do you see them in five years?
11.
Raymond tells
Eleanor that she deserves nice things. Why do you think he feels that way? Do
you agree with him?
12. Do you think Eleanor needs
to make peace with her past or forget about it to move on?
13.
When does
Eleanor start to feel hopeful about her life? What signs of positive change did
you notice in her day-to-day routine?
14.
How
do you think you would have treated Eleanor if she had been your classmate? What
do you think the world is like for those who are often seen as ‘different’ or
‘difficult’?
15.
How did you feel
about the ending of the book? Did it change your perspective about Eleanor?
16. Did Eleanor Oliphant is completely fine leave you feeling uplifted
and hopeful or concerned and doubtful
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